On a cooking spree

Cooking is an engagement. An engagement with the sights and smells of wonderful creations in the food world. Aromas of various cuisines fill the senses sometimes with nostalgia and sometimes with a longing to linger some more time in the present and savour all the good food laid in front of us. Memories of grandma’s and mom’s cooking fill the mind with absolute delight and wonder at the magic their hands churned out.

I have been on a cooking spree this last one month. The colourful dishes on YouTube are my motivation to try them out. There are hundreds of them to try out from. The descriptions are tempting enough to try to make them. I have so far prepared matar paneer, palak paneer, methi matar malai, chicken bhuna masala, egg korma, patta gobi kofta curry, zeera aloo, gobi matar masala, capsicum and potato and brinjal dry fry etc. I made all the dishes with single minded devotion being very true to the recipes shown on the internet. It’s an absolute delight to prepare these delicious food items and to be praised for them. This act of cooking calms my frayed nerves. It’s like an antidote to my monotonous and mundane existence as it spices up my life. It is a good and healthy past time. It is a wonderful hobby.

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Thoughts of my beloved Pt.8

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My beloved and I were happy sharing our thoughts and our emotions. Then the demise of a loved one filled his life with heartache and sorrow. He is restrained in his grief. I am a bit shaken and there is a feeling of pain. A feeling of pain has arisen due to this feeling of oneness with him. I could relate to his sorrow. I wish I could hold his hand and just sit beside him. But this unending distance always play havoc. I can only tell him to take care and look after himself. When a loved one dies, the pain is always embedded in some corner of your heart. But one moves on through life with the memories of the happy moments spent with your dear one. So be it for my beloved.

Starlit Nights

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What would one do on a starlit night? Such a whole gamut of things can be done on such a night. Lay a bed on the terrace, lie down and gaze at the stars, their beauty with the accompaniment of the moon will mesmerize you. Bring out two glasses of wine and sip it with your beloved while enjoying the sight. One can have candlelight dinner under the stars with the cool breeze caressing you. You can be out with your children showing them the different constellations . What about camping out on such a night with the fireflies for company and the waft of mystery surrounding you. An ideal setting indeed.

Dealing with other’s tragedies

There is death in the air. Flames engulf and consume two beautiful and lovely kids. The family is shattered. It will be a blot in their life which can never be wiped off from memory lane. The incident makes headlines in the TV networks and in the newspapers. It is sad. Sad is to put it mildly. Two young children nipped in the bud and so many possibilities that life beheld for them just snatched away in a few minutes. A tragedy of mammoth proportions.

The incident shakes me up and greatly saddens me. My mind brings back to me all the other incidents of deaths that my duty as an administrative officer call upon me to conduct inquests into. That is, of course, not what I want to discuss. But the tragedy that these deaths leave in their wake. A young mother loses her small child ; she is distraught with pain but is restrained in her sorrow. A mother wails gathering her daughter in her arms ; her daughter had committed suicide. The grieving husband who had just lost his wife to fire burns. The man who has been murdered by his servant and leaves behind a tearful family. Sudden occurrences of death which leaves these varied families shocked and sorrowful. I am a witness to all this. I am saddened too. But what I feel is a sort of secondhand shock. I look upon these tragic incidents as somewhat of a stranger who stops by and shows regret but is unable to reach their very depths. They do touch me although I try very hard to keep myself emotionally detached from them. They always leave a mark on me; invisible and raw. For years have passed by but i can still vividly recall every incident. They have left such sweeping statements on my memory.

Oh,those bygone days

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Why do we always look back and feel that the best days were the days that we left behind. The best time was the time gone by. Is it that the past was more attractive or alluring? Or is it that the future seems more unsure and harsh? Is it because we have deftly handled the incidents that defined our past and have survived their onslaught? Or are we a little frightened as to what the future holds for us that makes us uneasy and to an extent wobbly?

The past beckons to me in a way that is sweet and filled with warmth. That was the time when my family was together. When everyone, my parents, brother and sister and myself would jostle in our small house to get ready and reach our destinations for work. We would then spend cozy evenings at home sharing our daily experiences and laughing at the idiosyncrasies. We hardly knew in those days that in times to come we would separate and scatter away, being blown away by our search for sustenance and by our ambitions. We had unknowingly created memories that I still hold on to. Those are powerful to make me feel happy and ecstatic. Looking back, I crave for those days in the past which when compared to the present time seem lovely and filled with love and energy. A halo encompasses those days in the past. I long for them.

Work Space

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When I first joined in my job in 1999, the office space was a continuous array of files, typewriters, cupboards and shelves where these files were stored. Office goers found themselves mired in these files. Orders were communicated through typed letters. Slowly began the process of computerization and desktops replaced the old typewriters. Drafting orders became much more easy and fast. We are now in the age of laptops, emails and whatsapp. Office communication has become that much more faster. We now almost regularly receive our directions from our superiors through email or whatsapp; although it is still an informal way of office communication. In the present times we are moving towards the concept of e-office and of realizing it in the near future.

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A carefree life

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Today she gets up in the morning feeling happy and carefree. She is in another world. Her room is bright and clutter free. She gets out of bed, showers and puts on her favourite floral dress. A sumptuous breakfast is laid out on the table and she enjoys it. She takes her guitar, strums the strings; the music she creates lets out one melodious song after another. Her mood is uplifted and now she longs to be in the arms of her beloved. The dog is restless. It wants to go out for a walk. She puts on her hat and goes for a walk with her dog. The street is restless with joyous people; the happiness is infused into her. The park, the garden beyond is animated and appeals to her in muted terms. The weather is crisp and cool; the breeze touches her with impunity. She is flattered at its brashness. She sings a song in a low voice.

The alarm bell rings. She gets up with a smile. She had a beautiful dream. Reality strikes. She gets ready to go out for work.